BANG Surprise Podcast #4 With Kelsi Monroe

What are we rolling? Let's do some shit. How are we going to say? Welcome back to the main podcast. Join here today by... Kelsey Monroe. Kelsey Monroe, how are you doing today? I'm doing fabulous. How about you? I'm doing great. What's up Diego? How are you? I am doing good. D. Not bad. Nice to see you. Big Lou. Likewise. What's up everybody? Kelsey Monroe. Yes? We've met before. Maybe once or twice. How many times? Well, plenty. 50, according to you. I think it's 50. You think it's 50? Someone's going to have to check that. We've been working together for seven years. Oh my God, that's so long. Yeah, at this point it's over seven years. Do you remember our first scene? Yeah. Which one was it? I remember it. Like it was the first time I heard the Beatles. It's memorable, huh? Yeah, it was with silks and stuff. Oh, it was so much fun. That was cool. It was a blast. You guys started around the same time, right? Oh, I think I was in it for about a year before you. Because I remember when I got to work with you, it was always Jay Mac was the thing. And then they're like, well, we have this new guy named Lawless. And I was like, what? A new guy. I was so excited. And you know, here we are seven years later. And you're on the top of my list. Always. You're on the top of my list. Yay. Yeah, you're the easiest talent I've ever worked with. Yes. You're very pragmatic about shooting. Like you have, you have like times that you want to be done and you make sure we get fucking done. And there's no bullshit. There's no like lingering after like, so let's do it. No, you want to get your fucking job done. We got shit to do. You know how? I love that. I'm the same way. And I think that's why we work so well together. I think so as well. I enjoy someone who's like, all right, let's get this shit done. Yeah. No need to, we don't get paid by the hour. Although that would be nice. Why? Just delay the day as long as possible? You know, some people do that. Some people would be like, I'm on the time clock. I'm just saying. Yeah. I hate people like that. Are you talking about like production crew? Oh no, anyone who gets paid by the hour, I feel like they're just like, I get paid by the hour. So whatever. Do you talent get paid by the hour? I don't know. I've never heard of that. Yeah, right. But I mean, some crew get paid by the hour. So they kind of like drag things a little bit. I have no clue what people get paid. Well, you said when people are you talking about it? I'm just like, anyone who gets paid by the hour, sometimes they're just kind of like lingering it because they're like, I'm going to get paid anyway. It behooves oneself to move slowly. Yes. That's true. I guess. We move the little slope today getting ready. Did we or did we just take our fabulous sweet time? That's a great way to put it. It took us a little bit to get set up and situated here. That's okay. We're here now. How's your week been so far? My week has been super good. I recently got myself back into the porn industry, which is super exciting. How long were you out? I was out for, I don't know, let's see. The whole pregnancy I was out after a baby was born for like two years, three years it seemed like. That long? Yeah. I was in a relationship where obviously he didn't want me in porn. So I didn't. And now that we're not in the relationship, I'm like, oh, little one's going to tell me I can't. So you're back? I'm back. I can't believe it was three years that you were gone. Yeah, I know. It seemed like a long time, right? I mean, I'm going to ask a stupid question here because you're back. But did you miss it while you were gone? No. I didn't miss it while I was gone. Okay. When I came back, I realized how much I missed it, how much I missed being around people, joking around on set, getting my hair makeup done, dressing up, looking great on camera, fucking, I'm getting a big fat check after. Not by the hour. Not by the hour. So that's good. It's always good to hear when somebody really enjoys the industry. I have good things to say because so many people when they get out, they slander us and all that. Well, I don't know what they went through, but we've all been through some shit in porn, but it's very easy to be like, okay, I'm not doing that. No, and I respect the fact that people have their own experiences, whether they be good or bad, but if you get out, you shit all over everybody, and then three months later, you're back in. It's like, come on. That's how it goes. You know? Did you really have a bad time? So I don't like when people do that. I'm glad to hear that you took your time off that you needed. Yes. And then you came back, and you're happy to be back. We're happy to have you back. I'm so happy to be back, actually. How much did things change while you were away in those three years with the industry? The talent is different, obviously, because you know how it is people come and then they go. So finding talent that I like is, I guess, not difficult, but it's like hit or miss. When someone says, okay, you're going to work with someone new. You're just kind of like, oh, good. How's that person going to be on set? Because we get so accustomed to, you know, talent. Like working with you or working with Jay Mac or Tony Robino or AJ Applegate. Just easy breeze the set just flows. Then you get new people that are totally clueless and like you would never want to work with them because they don't know what the fuck they're doing. Right. They extend the day needlessly. Yeah. For no reason. For whatever it may be. Whatever the case may be. Maybe they're, or they're not into it. Like you could tell that they're just there because their agent told them to be there. That's even worse. Like. Do you have an agent? Oh no, absolutely not. Did you ever have an agent? I did. Kind of, I guess you could say. You only didn't name drop, but that's okay. I mean, if I did, everyone would have. No, don't. Yeah, don't name drop. What's the difference between, as a female, what's the difference between having an agent and not having an agent in the porn industry? I think it varies on the agent that you have. Of course. The person that I may have found me in the industry necessarily didn't know exactly what they were doing. And I realized, why would I pay someone 20% of my money when they're not doing what they're supposed to be doing with that 20%. You know, so then it got to a point when you get on set, you just kind of say, who's running this shit? Okay, let me get your number. Mm-hmm. And then I would go up on myself, go get tested. And then I would just mass-tax everyone. I'm tested simple. And that's it. I'll get my own shoots. And got to a point. It's like, why pay someone else to book me shoots if I can do it? Absolutely. And it's not that I didn't want to pay anyone else. I would have loved to have a great manager. I just think maybe the way my cards were dealt, I didn't get a good one. But there are great ones out there. And they're totally worth whatever percent they're charging these girls. I just didn't get that lucky with someone like that. And it's really good to some of these agents aren't just agents. They're coaches. And they're managers. And they're like, not guidance counselors, but they guide people in the proper direction. They should be guiding the girls in the nature. There's a lot to learn when you get into this business. 100 percent. A lot of things that people think, oh yeah, I could just film a porn and be done. Yeah. Yeah, sure. What would be something that you wish you knew before getting into porn? Nothing. I researched for six months before I actually did my phone call. How were you able to research? Basically, I just used Google. It's a platform that's very easy. I Googled everything. I Googled how much performers got paid. I Googled where they would shoot. I Googled, is this legit? Is it legal? I was very, I was not like, okay, I need the money. Let's just do it. I needed the money. But I was like, hold on the right leg. This is my life here. And I didn't think that I would become as famous as I did. But once it happened, I was like, cool. Now it's 10 times easier to just go full throttle with my career because I'm already all over the internet. When I was getting in, I did everything myself too. Nobody found me. I saw it out every opportunity. I wanted to do this really badly. I found nothing. I wanted to do all the thorough research like you're saying. But there was nothing there. I was able to find agents and I had to get tested and where production companies were. That information was out there because they need clients. So they advertise heavily. But when it came to what life is like on set for a male talent or what guy's got paid. Oh, no, I was not able to find any of that. I found none of that. Actually, in fact, I found traumatizing stories that made me be like, well, I don't know if I want to do this. Which is why I was so skeptical for six months. And it got to a point. As a broke bitch, I was like, you know what? Fuck it. I'm just going to do my one porn. I did it on my 21st birthday. Oh nice. And I remember not having sex for like six months, almost a year, I think, before I got on set. So it was like, wow, I just got laid by J-Mac. It was great sex. I was like, and they gave me a big fat check. I was like, and they treated me like gold. I got my hair make up done. They had lunch for me. They drove me wherever I needed to be. It was like total opposite of what people think porn is. And I just fell in love with it. And I just always happen to be around the right companies, I guess. I never let myself be with. Did you purposely hold out from having sex? No. I was with my first baby daddy. And he just wasn't fucking me. And I thought, you know, I was very insecure. I was practically a virgin when I met him. And I just, I got so insecure thinking, maybe I don't know how to have sex. And I didn't know how to practice because he wouldn't have sex with me. So when I got into porn, I was just like, all right. So I just kind of learned everything on camera. That's crazy. It is crazy. And it was very therapeutic for me because I got to go back and watch everything that I did. And I'd be like, okay, let me break down game film. Exactly. Let me tweak that up a little bit. Like I like to look at the guy's face, make sure they're enjoying it. Of course, because a lot of girls don't do that these days. Yeah. I think having a good experience with the crew definitely helps to dictate your experience overall as a performer. 100% on that. In my opinion, the crew can dictate my day more than the more than the female talent. 100% on that. I agree. And I think the crews are always, you know, pretty, they have the same goal as you. They want to get a scene done. They want to get it done. They want everybody happy. And I think that when you sense that vibe, when it's not there, it's like, I don't know, but I've never really been on set where I've had bad, bad vibes. Unless like maybe the girl talent usually doesn't want to be there or whatever the case. But other than that, the crew's awesome. Yeah. Which makes this set so much easier and fun. It flows, like you were saying. It flows. Yeah, and when everybody wants to get there, shoot a point and get out. It's tough to have a bad day. That is true. Now, when you were getting in and you said you haven't had sex for a while. Yes. So much of porn for you is enjoyment and enjoyable. Are you thinking, are you thinking, hey, I have to position myself a certain way so the camera, like now that you're a pro compared to, you know, when you first started, what's your thought? How was your thought last change? When I first started, I could you not, like, sex was missionary. He would come and I never experienced an orgasm. So when I got to porn, they would be like four positions. I'd be like, whoa. You know, it's like, whoa. Okay. There's only one though. So the first time you came was on set? No. I was with myself with a hotachi and I just remember my friend telling me not to stop until, like, I felt a sensation. And then when I finally came, I was just like, okay, so, you know, you have to experience yourself. I guess for a guy, it's different. You guys just kind of explode. Girls, it's kind of like mental. Like, I can be on set and I can come if I want to. But I can also be on set and not come in the same exact position that I would come. If that makes sense. Yeah. Well, I mean, from a guy's point of view, like, yeah, there's certain times where I'm like holding back, like, okay, I can't come right now. Well, you have to. Right. So it's a mental pain. We don't have that. We can come right in the beginning of the scene. They would love that. Yeah. For you guys. Not so much in my part. If you guys have to hold that back, it's because you have to hold that back. We can be like, all right, I'm going to come. You're going to love it. Or if I want to be, like, letting them know that they're not performing that well, then they're not going to get it. That's us. Most amount of times you come on the scene. Oh, on the scene. I only give one come. Give us two today. Come on. So you said when you made yourself come for the first time, you had already started pouring, though, right? Yes. I was already in porn when I first came. And now when you do shoot on set, like, when you have sex on set, it's enjoyable. And like you said, you come. Oh, yes. But is that enjoyable? Like, is it an orgasm? Yes. And if it's not enjoyable, I will literally let them know. Like, hey, you know, I'm not enjoying this. But I also set myself up before I get on scene. I know who my male talent is. I know exactly what I'm doing. So when I get on set, I already know what to expect. And I know that the male talents that I pick are never going to give me a hard time. If that makes sense. Yeah. Unfortunately for you guys, you could stuck with whatever girl and you just have to do it. No, I was talking about this yesterday on set. The girl was saying that she has to prep for anal so she can't eat until Monday, I guess, so that, you know, everything goes well. And I was like, it's so crazy that they get, you know, briefed on a scene three, four days prior to it happening. You guys don't. Hey, tomorrow's call time is 10. Yeah. Here's the address. And then I'm like, okay. And there's been multiple times where I showed up. And it's like, it's a, it's a boy girl scene, but it's anal. And I'm like, I don't, I don't really like it, you know, honestly. Yeah. So I'll be like, okay, what am I supposed to do? I can't walk off set. Like, now I got to fucking, so I'll do that or show up and it's a boy boy girl. Like, I've never double teamed a girl before. Like, you shouldn't let me know so I can mentally prep that I'm going to be, you know, staring at another dude the whole time. I have a question for you. Yeah. Do you have an agent? No, I don't. No, no. I had an agent. I had an agent when I first got in. They set up my first couple of shoots. And then I was lucky enough to be given a contract. So I didn't need an agent for the whole first year. Smart. Yeah, it was awesome. And now when you book shoots, do you just answer whatever call books or do I mean? Yeah, I don't have a no list and I'm not picky. Like I was saying earlier about why I like working with you so much. It's so pragmatic. I take the pragmatic approach. Like, this is a business and I love the business. Yes. So if I'm open, like, if I have the day open that they want to shoot, I don't turn anybody down. Unless it's, unless it's like anal, I'm like, if you could book somebody, like, don't lose the shoot, but book somebody out. But I haven't done anal now in almost three years. That's awesome. Because I love people. It's been, it's been more than three years for me for anal. Yeah. Actually, yeah. I'm actually doing an anal pretty soon. Dead. 40, 45 minutes. No. Because you don't like anal. I know, right? That would be, I sit here for 20 minutes. How do you do on anal? Oh, you know, Kelsey. How do I feel about anal? What do you, do you like it? I love it. You and I have done like 15 anal scenes. I enjoy anal with you and I know you enjoy anal with me. You are the only person. Because you tell me flat out, you don't like anal. But when you do anal with me, you're okay with it. And I know you're enjoying it because I've seen you come many times from my ass. What a tragedy. This guy has to fuck you in the ass and complains about it, huh? No, no, no. He won't complains about the others. He ain't anal, but not with you. I ain't hate anal. I get to fuck Kelsey in the ass. I hate anal. Let it out. Wow. That's your voice, I think. I know. I know. I was like, there's an echo in there. It's pretty accurate. Hey man. You know what? Look, this is the best business in the world. And I would prefer to continue to think of it that way. Like, look. Fucking Kelsey Monroe. Fucking Kelsey Monroe in the ass. That's my point. That's great. I'm taking it. But there's nothing wrong with being honest. If you don't like anal, there's nothing wrong with that. There are things that I don't like either, and I'm very strict. I don't have a no-list. Like, I'm not like, no I won't work with that person. I just prefer the people that I like better. Of course. And if I can't have that, well then you can't have Kelsey. It's great. I get to get to see what I'm going to do. I get to see what I'm going to do to make a new person. I get to see what I need to do. I get to see what I need to do. You can't have Kelsey. It's that simple. There's nothing wrong with having the things that you like and things that you don't like. And going back to what you were saying about things being enjoyable or, you know, there for the business, the scene looks so much better when everyone's enjoying it. When everybody's having a good time. The person at home doing whatever they're doing is going to get off way easier if, you know, who you're watching is really into it. So it definitely helps the whole life. One hundred percent. Yeah. But yeah, of course there's been sets where it's outside, you know, on some exterior staircase with some girl. What, you know, what, and it's like she doesn't even want to be there. She's on her phone. She wants a cigarette. It's weird. It's position. Was that the best day of my life? No, but it's better than, you know, doing a lot of other jobs. Yeah. In my opinion, absolutely. One hundred percent. Yeah. So yeah, but I'm not shitting on anal literally here. But sometimes there's nothing wrong with you just liking it. Well, what he likes pussy? He feels like home. Yeah. I guess without being hyper graphic, what is it that you like about ain't what you don't like about anal, Sean? And what is about you? Like about anal. Oh, you want to go first? Cause mine's better. Yeah, you go first. No, you didn't hear me. You want to go first? Cause mine's better. You go first. No, no, no. Here's what I don't like. Here's what I don't like. All right. Three things, I guess. The first one being it's way too tight. And I know they're right. Oh, this guy's complaining. Yo, it feels like a vice grip, you know. Not everyone's got a massive cock like you, okay? The second one is it doesn't necessarily get wet. And when it does, it's not the best, you know, thing that's wet. Not the best wetness. Yeah. The other one, bro, pussy. What's the wrong with like a pussy? Like, there's nothing. It feels like home. You know, I don't know. It just feels right. So like, look, do I hate it? No. But I prefer, I prefer vagina. There's nothing wrong with that. Thank you. Thank you for your understanding. My preference is when I first did anal. Wow. It was just like holy shit. What have I been missing out on? And especially when you get double penetrated or at least maybe a little play on the clip while you're getting it in the butt, it's just the double sensation. Yes, I will admit anal is a little bit painful. If you don't prep properly, it can be extremely painful. You can douse it up in coconut oil. You can put as much coconut oil down the butthole and it's completely spotless. And when you can enjoy it like that, nice and wet and lubed. Like, I can't have anal without a abundance amount of oil. It's way more enjoyable that way. And then, you know, that, okay, do you like getting choked while you're having sex? Personally, no. Okay. So you don't like anything rough. Me? We've worked together 50 times. You know, how vanilla I am. I know. Every time I choke, you're like, I can't breathe right now. You like get off me. See, but you're vanilla for porn standards. Not for regular people. Yeah, that's true. What do you mean in your personal life, you're rough? Well, no. Like, like porn standard vanilla. Like, the sex that we have and then we're going to have is not home sex. Like, I'm going to pull your hair smack your ass. I'll choke you whatever. And yeah, you could choke me a little bit too. But it's vanilla for porn standards. Yes. Like, we're not fucking like that if you were at home. I sure wish I was getting fucked like that if I was at home. I said what I said. I always kind of describe porn on sex on camera is almost like a dance. Okay. Like, I see it like a dance. When you guys fuck who leads? We usually let the director tell us what they want. And from there, if it's a position where you're supposed to lead, he rightfully takes the position and leads. If I'm supposed to lead, obviously, I take the position. That's a great question for her and I because of how many times that we've worked together for you guys. It's specific. Right. And I know that in a dance, like depending on what dance it is, there is supposed to be someone who leads the other, but artists is almost like predetermined choreographed. Everything is predetermined. They have a script with pictures. If she can't see you directing and I can and I see you give the signal for an exposition. And she knows instantly what I'm trying to put her. So it is it's a smooth flow. It is like a dance. And then if certain thing is extremely uncomfortable and I kind of give her a signal, she picks up on it right away. And then again, that's why that's what goes back to me saying, you're my favorite to work with. There's no like if you're uncomfortable, I can pick it up and we just like slightly move, keep everything open for the camera. We've done this so many times now that we don't even have to say anything. Nothing at all. It's usually just a look. It's very simple. You know, when we're performing on camera, we're giving eye contact, but it's very simple for me to look at him and he knows right away. Something needs to change here. I don't know what it is. But like, you know, depending on what it is, I wonder what it's like for you on set with girls that you don't have that connection with. It's difficult, right. It's extremely difficult because how do you say it to her? And on with new girls, I have to say it in such a way that is polite because when I hurt their feelings, polite is the first and foremost thing. But I also, because sometimes I have to say it three or four times. So I have like, yeah, that sometimes I have to intervene. I have to direct it. Yeah. I intervene. I'm like, all right, guys, let's kind of switch it up. He does that. We have to cut, right. So if during the scene, like you and I shoot a scene action to cut, like the whole scene, that's preferably. I like it that way. I know editors love it that way. It makes the scene better. Fans love it that way. They don't like to see the cut and then come back on. So in that instance where I'm trying to position a girl for the camera and she's not going, and I'll vocalize it like, yeah, just put your leg like that. Oh yeah. And then she brings it right back. Just, oh yeah, keep it like, and then she brings it back. Then we have to cut for the director to go, okay, honey, when he puts you in this position, we need to stay there for a couple of minutes. What is the philosophy? If it feels good, it doesn't look good. If it's uncomfortable, it looks good. So yeah, you kind of have to contort your body in a certain way to get the camera shot to get the angle that looks. And I think performers don't know that until they film for themselves maybe because that's when I learned like, wow, this shot's not working or you never want to get the guys butt in the camera. You know, these are things that I feel like a man's job on set is way harder than ours. That's just how I feel. But as a woman, like, staying still in that position that may be uncomfortable is not the funnest, but it goes a lot faster than you think because then the directors are happy. Everyone's happy on set, males happy. And then you move on to the next position. And that's it. That always happens with any amateur that comes on that they feel like they just got to sit there and get drilled. And that's it. And not understand that you have to position yourself, pose yourself like any other modeling job or whatever. Or they'll, you can't be slouching. You have to position. Exactly. Yeah, it is. It's a choreographed dance that you have to learn over time. And right, like so many things that you do well that are like intangibles. So, like, if a girl is getting, you know, fuck, and you, this, you know, sexy hands, you got to have sexy hands. Do what? And, you know, keeping your hands in a way that just isn't boring and isn't like, what's going on there? There's no question marks when you shoot a scene. They don't think like that until they go back and watch. And I used to be like, when someone put my thing up, and I would see my porn, I'd be like, ah, but now like I like to watch it and like watch how far I've come along, you know, things that we don't think about, like, where was my hand while I was doing that? Or what was I doing with my face? Or was I looking at the camera? Was my ass opened up? Can, you know, like, you got to watch your own porn to really. I have one pet peeve, like, as a director, is when a girl is doing side-mish. If her bottom leg is bent, straight out, straight out. Look, she looks dead. And I think Kelsey, like, from the, I mean, I think I was there and on for Kelsey. And from the beginning, it was like an ass fetish video. And your butt was just so amazing. First of all, we'll just say that. And then you just knew how to walk, which is funny. Like, when she said she'd use, she studies game film, she came at a high level. She came at a high level. She came at a high level. I was going to say, like, yeah, you're a gymnast, no? Yes. You must have had legs for 12 years, actually. I would have competed in the Olympics. But funny story, my mom was like, okay, you've completed every level. We're going to drop you out of school. You're going to be homeschooled. You're going to go to the Olympics. And I just remember being like homeschooled. Absolutely not. Imagine if that was today. You know, but I look back at it. And I'm like, damn, I should have just been homeschooled and took the opportunity. But how good were you? I completed every level before I was in middle school. So you know, Joe could have made the Olympic team 100 percent. What type of genetics? Genetics. I mean, I was like raised by questions. So I did everything. I did floor. I did bars. I did vaults. I did. I did all of it. The whole deal, no? Have you retained any of that skill? Can you still do? 100 percent. Everything that I learned I can still do. And I still do it almost every day. I've got a tumble track at home. I go to the trampoline place with the kids. I'm a flippa. Do you do on even bars? I can't jump from bar to bar. Okay. But I can't do on even bars. You're pretty tall for a gym. Thank you. Yeah. You're quite wise because a lot of gymnasts are like four feet. I was like five, four and a half when I started porn. And I went to a doctor to, you know, check to see if my growth was good because I wanted to be a model. And I want, they were like, oh, you got to be like five, seven. I was like, that's unrealistic. And my doctor told me, you know, if you stand up straighter, you'll grow a little bit. Now here, I am five, six and a half. So yes, I grew two inches. When I was a kid, after the age of 21, no, nine, five, six, six, six and a half on the dot. I don't know. This is probably completely fougaisy. But when I was a kid, so many told me, you want to, you're a small kid, you want to be big, go hang from the monkey bars every day. And I did for like a long time. Think about it. It's got to be stretching your bones, stretching your body. No. I don't know. You don't get the six two because you hung on the monkey bar. I mean, how short are you? Yeah. My family's, I'm, I dominate over over my, like in family photos, I have to like for everybody across the board. Were you taking your flintstone vitamins? Yeah, I'm sure I did. Me too. Me too. Me too. Ladies are not very healthy, but so you have sex on camera with like world class studs, myself excluded. And then you go home and you have sex with your man. Is it the same? Is it different? It's a, is it still enjoyable? Because I'll follow up the question after you answer. Basically, when I had a man while I was doing porn, I guess I had the wrong man. Maybe I don't know what it's like for other girls on set, but like I think he would try to do more than what I would do on set. So I would get home after a long day on set, you know, and I would just want some things simple to the point, you know, but he wanted a whole porn scene as well because he felt like for you. Exactly. Did he really? Well, I mean, not script, but like he expected me to perform just as long as I would in a scene, I guess. And then, you know, when I had to talk about it with him and I said, I can't do that. I can't perform a whole scene. And then, you know, we came to a happy medium where we started filming our own porn. And it was fun because we would have our own porn scenes. And then, you know, our simple sex, like you just get your nut, I'm going to get mine. And he knows to make sure I come first. And I make sure he gets his come simple, you know, something simple, missionary, simple. That's it. What do you think moving forward will be your preference dating somebody in the industry or not in the industry? I want someone who's willing to have an open relationship, someone who understands what I've done, what I do or what I did. If that makes sense. What you're going to do, you mean? Right. So like, if I want to be a porn star still and I also want to date you, you have to be willing to do that. And also, you've got to be willing to fuck bitches in front of me. Like, I want to see you fuck bitches too. Like bad bitches. Like, you know what I mean? Okay. Is that too much to ask? That at all. It's a lot to ask from most girls. They're not going to be down like that. Well, most girls haven't been through what I've been through. I guess you could say. Like, I guess when I'm with a guy and like, I fall in love. And then when you lose them, you're like, oh my God, I just lost the love of my life. But it's not that serious. Like, you can move on and find another. No, I don't want to move on and find another. How about we fuck bitches together and figure out what we like and figure out as you go? Is that possible? I mean, I'm in a, I'm in a, I'm in a serious relationship and I have down for a very long time. So yeah, I think it's absolute. And there's a lot of, there's porn couples that are married and then there's, there's people, there's guys who are married to, you know, non-industry women and then there's women in the industry who are married to non-industry men. Absolutely. Of course, that dynamic can work. Of course. We always have questions. How does it work? Yeah. But I think it's such a question until you're at that point. You know, it's like the outside are looking in. Like, oh, how did they get there? Why are they? But once you're in, it's, it's still life. We're still living. We're still people. We're all, most of us have kids at home, wife, husband, whatever the case. Yeah. And it works fine. You know, you go to, the conversation after work is slightly different. Yes. Um, you know, I think as a performer, I steer away from that whole like when your husband says, so honey, how is work? I'd be like, just don't ask. Simple. I have a pretty, and it's a very honest answer. My, my judgment on how well my day went is how quickly we got to get like efficiently, we got it done. You know, like, how was your day? It was great. We finished the scene in three hours. That's awesome. Yeah. How was your scene? It sucked. There's six hours. My fuck a dick couldn't get hard. So yeah, it's, it's, that's my gauge. It's not like, oh, she was so fucking hot. I would have fucked her twice. No, of course, you know, people don't understand that when we get on said, there's nothing enjoyable about someone telling us how to have sex. Yeah. Like we don't get to pick and choose what position we do, how we like it, what we're wearing. It's just kind of like, you get what you get. Yeah. And you either enjoy it or you don't. Well, let's change things up today. You get to pick and choose whatever you want. Oh, once we start shooting, you pick what you want. But the fun part is, is when I'm with my faves, I, I like for them to tell me what they like. That's, I want to get out of here. Okay. Okay. This guy has a best life. He wants to hurry it up. Yeah. I mean, I just said efficiencies the best. You know, let's, let's not go. And again, dude, you could be having the best sex, but 20 minutes is like, okay, that's what we can wrap it up at 20 minutes at home. I have the best sex at home. Three, four, maybe five minutes. Seriously. And we both get hours. I wish that some men would understand that not every woman is looking for stamina. I think I guess every woman's different. I prefer, like if I can make the faster I can make you come, the hotter that is. Yeah. It turns me on. It makes me feel secure about whatever I'm doing. And then I'd be like, Hey, you know, you ready for another one? Do you want another one? Like questions on the women we can, we can keep coming. Yeah. For guys, what is that like after you come? Are you done? Personally, I'm done for at least 15 minutes. Like, that's not long. Yeah. So go get a snack and come back. That's, that's, yeah. I mean, having we shot more than one scene in a day together. Yeah, we have. We shot like four one time. Yes, but we made sure that you only knotted once so that you were comfortable, I think. I made sure I came twice one time. Actually, yeah, I think you're right. Yeah. And I've shot triples before. I mean, it depends on the girl. I guess. How are you feeling that day? I mean, that for me at least. Some guys fucking not five times. I'm like, what the fuck? All right. Good for you, dude. Wow. Yeah. Wow. To each is. I don't I guess. I'm going to not once today though. Oh, well, then that's awesome. That was something I didn't know about when I first got into the industry, because like you see the the photos. I didn't know there were photos and then video. Oh yeah. And then like, right, they take photos with, you know, the pop shot on the face. And that's we had no idea that that's set of films. Yeah, it's lotion, you know, that. So yeah, you as a dude in porn, typically you just come once a day, you know, but that could be a problem too because if you have a big extravagant setup where there's four different rooms and there's all these ad moments and stuff like that, you could be up and down for four hours. Can you explain why that is fake that we have to do a fake picture shot? Well, I mean, it's a sales tactic sells, it sells the video better. And we usually do a fake come shot because we finished the pictures before the actual come shot, because the girl usually, once she has real come all over her face and the guy's done, you know, your dick's gonna go soft. So we like to get the shot beforehand. And that way he doesn't have to nut. We can keep his dick hard. And I don't think it's more of ads. I think of more like we think of the dick. Yeah, like it's got to stay hard and it's got to come later. And it's like what you said for your makeup, not to ruin your makeup. Not to have a fuck face and fuck hair and all that. Because if you do the pictures before and you have come all over your face, it actually will come dries up all crusty and white. Especially this guy's literally does. And like after that, there's no saving the makeup. You can't go back and do video. Gusty calm Jesus. Oh, crusty. bangpodcast.com. On bangpodcast.com, we don't just interview porn stars. We have sex with them right here in the studio. So if you aren't watching bangpodcast.com on the bangpodcast.com, you're gonna be missing out on all these crazy types of conversations. She's gonna start getting naked and then we're gonna fuck. All right. So yeah, wherever you're watching this right now, the best place to watch it is bangpodcast.com. So back to flaky nasty white-crusted calm on your face. Do you enjoy getting come shots in your face? Yes, as long as it doesn't go in my eye. Well, for a woman who's been in this industry for seven years worked many 50 times, why would you jinx yourself and say that? Because you're the only one that comes in my eye. If you want to see Kelsey's red eyes, keep watching guys join us. I don't mind it. No, I don't like how they lie. What am I expecting you to be like, no, right here. Can you? I'll stare at you while you ejaculate into my eyeball. Well, you like it when I look up at you. You're very specific. You just look shut up and look shut up. The worst is like you're trying it. You know, it's right. There's four dudes in the room. There's lights. The AC's off. I'm dripping sweat. And then the girls like, oh, I fucking want that. I'm like shut just, or since we're in Miami, the Latin girls, I can't recall damn it. I'm like, I don't even know what you're saying. If I don't know what they're saying, I'm like, keep talking to me. I guess it's easier to tune out, but like, that's true. I mean, you're specific. I'm okay with that. I'm just going to sell you to stop coming in. All right. I won't come on your ass. Speaking of guys that don't speak the language, have you ever traveled out of the country to shoot? No. No, you never did that crazy. You're a pan tour. How about you, Sean? I've never traveled. No, not out of the country. No. Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. I was over in Ireland and they asked me to do a shoot in UK, but I was on vacation. But so no, I passed on that. Yeah. But I've traveled how many, how many places have you traveled to shoot porn? Only Cali. Yeah, just Cali. No, I went to New Jersey for like Exotica. That was fun. Jersey, huh? But yeah. You like the trade shows? You like meeting the fans? Oh my God. That is hands down my best part about being in this industry. Have you ever been in Exotica and like met the fans? Yeah, I go to avian every year. My God. Well, avian's not as good as Exotica. I don't understand why. I feel like avian is more producers and film so they're not as hype to see you as actual fans. When you get somewhere where there's just fans, they're just like, oh my God, like kissing the floor that you walk on. That's fun. And it's the coolest feeling in the world. You're like, dude, I'm just like, I'm just a person. Like, but shit, you're going to gas me up like that. Keep going. What about in public? How often do you get recognized in public? I can't go anywhere in public without getting recognized. I'll be in a popular place and with a hoodie on, a hat, glasses, some baggy sweatpants. Cali. How? Hold on. This will happen anywhere in the, how baggy are the sweatpants? I mean, they're baggy enough, but he, I don't, you still see your ass. I asked him. I said, how did you recognize me? And he's like, and I asked like that. I'm like, but there's so many bitches out there that have bubble butts. No, there's not. I appreciate that. It's the truth. How much longer do you see yourself in this industry? Until nobody likes me. Okay, so forever. I mean, yeah. Do you, do you want a transition in any way or you want to just keep going? I would love to be like, I mean, I love getting drilled on camera. I genuinely love it. I love feeling sexy. I love, but if I could, I would be a sex therapist. I would love to help couples explore different sex and realize that sex is a huge part of a relationship and it can fix things. Otherwise, you just roommates. Oh, otherwise, you're just roommates. There you go. That's cool. I've never heard that one before. Really? Yeah, it's a porn star sex therapist. That's a match made in hand. I have friends that ask me about sex advice all the time. And I'm like, what am I a therapist? Well, I could be. What type of schooling do you have to go do to get your, I don't know, but when I talk to a, all right, just be a holistic one. Just be a holistic one. Get an online certification. I do like, you know, the right way that way some people take me professionally, I guess. And then we learn things. I learned stuff. Yeah, I get some books and stuff. That's a professional type. Yeah, all right, get some books. I'm going to get some books and I can read good, you know, sex therapist. Just get a little office, put a bunch of books behind you, you know, like. And a big fashion. Or you know what you can do instead of populate your bookshelf with books, every DVD you've ever been in. All right. You can reference this movie and a minute 34 would help you guys. You should be like, my husband's cheating on me. What do you recommend this one? Yeah. And it's usually gang banged. We recommend you get him a step sister. If you teach, if you teach regular women how to do reverse cowgirl, I think most marriages will be saved. I have girls, there's some things and I tell them, you know, get spicy with it, you know, I want to hear what Lou has to say, but I think it's, is it the slutty aspect of reverse cowgirl? There's something. There's an aspect of reverse cowgirl that is so an emotional, so an emotional, but it's like a doggy, but new doggy. Yeah. I mean, for you guys who do it all the time, reverse cowgirl isn't like, you know, like, okay, it's another position on the list, but when you do it on real life reverse cowgirl is different. It's like a doggy, but the guy's relaxing, you know. Yes, they are relaxed. I know that with my man, he couldn't do it because he didn't like how fast he came. I don't want to do it because I'll come too fast. No, he won't do doggy because he comes too fast. And I'm like, well, maybe I like that, but not every guy is down to come too fast. Not. It's definitely a complex thing, you know. Some girls like it. Masculinity issue, I guess. I don't understand. I don't know why, yeah, a lot of my friends, they ask like, how could I last longer? And I'm like, I don't know, don't come. Like, or why don't you come before having sex? Or just come a bunch of times. That too. You know, I don't know. I mean, I understand I call it the hunger, but like the horniness goes away a little bit. Like, oh, I just came like, I know, you're still hot, but, but revisit that in 30 minutes. Say you're about to, you know, you're going to get late that night, right? In the morning, give yourself a quick nut. Crank them out. Exactly. That way when you get on, on, on set, get out, get out. You're, you're ready to go. And you can last. Yeah, when I, when I, before my first porn, he masturbated a week prior. So I went, I went longer without a nut for a week. Yeah, I think I went the longest I ever went in my like, adult life without coming the, the day before I shot, like the time before I shot my first porn. And then when you got to your porn scene, didn't you just explode? I was the only one basically out of five dudes that was hard. I think I could just because I was like a ravenous dog. I was, like, a boxer before a fight. Did you come fast when they asked me to? Wow. Yeah. So you didn't just explode on impact. No, no, I didn't. That's where he peaked in porn. Yeah, it was my first thing. It was the best. They were like, damn, this guy has got it. Yeah. Yeah. And now you're doing your first day. Yeah. Wow. Yeah. No, they threw me to the wolves. Yeah, they threw me to the wolves. Have you done one gang bang? Um, yes, not how many guys weren't you there? Yeah. I was number 32. Yeah, I took the, there was five of you, right? Yeah, there was five of us. So that's a gang bang, right? That's a gang. Yeah, even though it was five minutes, it was still a gang bang. No, that's a gang bang. And was, what, the whole deal double penetration and everything? I mean, they did, honestly, I kid you not, I blacked out. I was like, wow. That was one of the most intense things of my life. I've never saw somebody, they put me last. You got thrown around. It was so rough and aggressive. And I was still like, what was that three years ago? Or something like that? I still hadn't found my mojo. I was just standing there like, I don't know what to do in these. But we were comfortable together. So that, that was a good thing. Like the way you liked it. Like dude, you were a fucking, so fucking, seven days a Sunday. And I'm just like, I don't know if I fit into this equation. Kelsey, but you said that they put you last. What do you mean they put you last? It was more than one girl. It was like a round robin type thing. They had 10 girls and they gave us the option. We can either fuck one guy to five guys. And I was the only one that was like, I want all five. And had you done anything? I had never done that ever in my life. It was an experience. So five guys is the most that you've done? Yes. Would you go higher than that? I think because the way the scene was set up, and I knew it was only five minutes, and I knew that it was the guys are already there. I don't know if I could do a whole gangbang scene. Right. That's like a full 40 minute scene like that. I don't know. And maybe because it was five minutes, that's why it was so everybody just unloaded the fact that it was only five minutes made it exciting. I was like, well, how am I supposed to do this in five minutes? Like it was over. I was like, what do you ever do? Like one of those like, you know, fuck up fans or Daytona 500, but it's like 500, which 500 dudes, and you're like, they're just getting fucking railed all afternoon by 500 guys. That's what they told me. Two hundred and five hundred. No. Houston, five hundred. Houston, five hundred. I'm sorry about for me. How about a fan? I did fuck a fan, and then we had a baby. No. That's where you go. It happens. Hold on. One of your kids are with the fan. Yeah. Okay, this guy's that pineapple shirt on, right? Yeah. Okay, so like the industry got dull. There was a dull hole. Right. Right. Four years ago. Yeah, when I got in. It was right when, you know, everyone started, no, it was not right when you got in. It was like three years after. And I was like, you know what, I'm going to host the fuck a fan contest and email me with hashtag pineapple. There you go. And that was it. Like this one guy stuck out. And I got a whole set lights, camera action. Get out. Nothing. Oh, we gave him a Viagra. 19 years old. Nothing. So then I was like, hold on away. Is it me? Like, is there something wrong with me? So I took it off. I'm not really a fan. I took it out for a day and we hit it off. And that was it. We fell in love. We dated for four years. We had a baby. And dude, that's, that's, and then match dot com. There you go. You're just going to become a porn star. Yeah. And then put some feelers out on the internet. And it'd be like, I want that person. Yeah. That's, no, let's see if you guys fall in love. Cause I think we're right. We haven't fallen in love. That could be a romantic comedy right there. Actually, there's an article about it. Yeah. It's kind of funny. Well, we won't fall in love, but do you want to make some love? Yeah. You want to start getting fucked and all that. We are moving to the hardcore portion of being podcasts, folks. Baby. Oh, yeah. Kelsie Monroe is going to spread her ass hole and make some love. We'll do some reverse cowgirl. We'll try to make you come. I'll try to pop in one minute just to see for the, for the all factor. Are you going to be able to come again though? Well, we're going to have to wait 30 minutes. Do you have that tie at kind of time today? No. All right. So I'll come more time. I don't get paid by the hours. I'll bring it back. Yes. So bang podcast.com. Hopefully you're already here with us and you're going to just keep rolling into Kelsie Monroe. You have this gigantic ass. Oh,